Thursday, June 28, 2007

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Chop wood and carry water...

"Before enlightenment, chop wood and carry water. After enlightenment, chop wood and carry water."
--Zen Proverb
James Ray International

When people come up to me at my live events, I frequently hear from them (and you may have even been one): "When I get to this point in my career, I will..." Or, "When I get to this income level, I will..." Or, "When I achieve this reward, then I will..."

These statements are always followed by some action or behavior that they're going to put into practice after they achieve or acquire their "magic bullet."

When I hear these types of comments, regardless of the context or the promise being made, I typically think, "No, you probably won't." Why? Because if the habit has not yet been developed, it won't be acted upon. Life doesn't miraculously change until YOU change.

The Zen proverb above is telling us that success, happiness or Harmonic Wealth® (you choose the term) is not a destination but a process.

You and I both know that no award, no income, no new toy, no promotion will make us happy and/or successful.

Life will not miraculously change when your next goal is attained. You'll still chop wood and carry water, or maybe you'll still pay bills and sometimes wonder where the money is going to come from.

The difference comes in the attitude with which you do these things. When true happiness and fulfillment is reached, you'll learn that the journey is the adventure, the excitement and the fun of life.

The journey is Harmonic Wealth, and the journey never ends...

Here's how you can start experiencing happiness and fulfillment starting right now:

  1. A great quote from A Course in Miracles says, "I can choose peace rather than this." Choose to be at peace and enjoy what life is giving you right now...
  2. The amateur hopes and wishes... The professional knows. When asked, "Do you believe in God?" Carl Jung answered, "I don't believe. I know." Knowing is power! Know that whatever is happening right now is part of a larger plan happening perfectly for your own personal growth, development and betterment.
  3. Develop good habits now. Live and invest in the things that you say are important to you. Make your beliefs, your habits and your actions congruent. Don't do them "someday." Do them today.
  4. Realize that you never own anything. Every "thing" you have will someday belong to someone else when you're gone. You're only using "your things" for a time. Enjoy them while you have them, but don't let them own you.
  5. Fulfillment and happiness is not some means to eliminate life's daily tasks. You'll always be (at some level) chopping wood and carrying water. Allow your work to be your passion and your love made manifest through action.

Make your life magnificent and enjoy the process.

To your continued wealth and happiness,

James Arthur Ray
President/CEO
James Ray International

James Ray International

P.S. Million Dollar Mindset is on sale through June 30, 2007. Learn the six Critical Success Factors on the journey of Harmonic Wealth. Click and save 16% off the retail price.

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Blogger Amy J + Energy = Bliss! said ... (6/29/2007 5:57 AM) : 
Oh James this is so wonderful and perfect! Such magnificent wisdom in here... Thank you! 1 million hugs for this one!

"Life doesn't miraculously change until YOU change."
How true! We love to fight this one tooth and nail, But when we do change miracles happen. That chopping wood and carrying water becomes the most blissful experience in the moment you are performing it!

This post is so perfect I can add no more to it... so I will offer the words of the great enlightened monastic Ajahn Chah to complement it.

"No one and nothing can free you but your own understanding."

I'm off step into the miracle of my day carrying some wood and chopping some water (now THIS will be a great miracle!!) with great love and presence.

Deeply grateful for this perfection James!

Much Love to you!

Amy


Blogger Sky said ... (7/05/2007 6:18 PM) : 
Chop, carry and confess :)

James,

Initially, I got this Zen Proverb via email and I didn't feel connected with it. Then, I visited your blog and saw this message several times. To put it bluntly, it began to annoy me! haha Yes, as much as I adore you, I resisted your message. A couple of times, I even said aloud to myself (sarcastically), "chop wood, carry water, chop wood, carry water" shaking my head or with an eye roll perhaps (and I told you mentally to put a new message up because I didn't like this one *smile*) Now, however, I realize I must say thank you once again because, just like so many of your teachings, this is a gift that helps me to access the Truth inside myself.

Many of us are waiting for the perfect time or the perfect "happening" in order to move our own feet. Many of us look for a magic wand or a magic pill to solve our challenges. Personality, gender and other differences exist, yet at the heart, at the core, the human struggles are really the same. We may take a diet pill without changing our diets. We may look for someone to love us without truly loving ourselves. Women and men have often been socialized quite differently and "valued" for different roles. I think many women (consciously or unconsciously) still hold onto the belief that a "prince" can rescue them and that HIS power is what they need most. I have said, "women have holes but are still whole." This may sound vulgar but I think that it is really important for women especially to remember that we do have worth and power regardless of what relationships we are in or not in. Conversely, men have historically been valued for their individual achievements and may use the "good story" that they cannot do something because they have not done so in the past or because there is something external keeping them from achieving.

Chop wood and carry water NOW. Many times we wait. We wait and we wait... for the right time, for the right person, for something external to move us and perhaps even do the work for us... and yet, there is tremendous sense of esteem and accomplishment that comes from taking action and responsibility, utilizing our own power, tapping into our own creative energies. I don't think we could ever get this solely from external sources, including circumstances. Yes, we are all One, we are all connected... I believe all energy comes from God... but I also think that we must be a part of that - we must see our part in it and we must act our part in it... and it is through this that we do right by ourselves and truly enrich the world. Sure, it's difficult at times; but, I don't think we would want it any other way really.

The journey of life is a process and being in the moment, and grateful for what we have this moment, is so key. With this realization, we turn anxiety into excitement. We can celebrate and enjoy all that we have & all that we are. We must remember that we can choose Peace right now, no matter what or who is in our lives.

Often it is the thinking about things that makes them most difficult anyway. How many times have you had a stack of dishes in the sink and thought about washing them several times? The thought may not be appealing and can be dreaded. However, if you thought about it five times, you might as well have washed the dishes five times AND in the most miserable way you possibly could! Yet, when you just get up and wash the dishes, it's generally not as bad as you thought - in fact, you might even enjoy it... and the sense of accomplishment, when it's all finished, is a reward in and of itself.

We do have the keys to unlock our internal prisons and change the world for the better. Talk about freedom and independence! All of us are separate yet connected... let us be One in this commitment to choose Peace.

Chop wood and carry water. Chop wood and carry water. Now I say it is a new way. I don't say it with sarcasm or annoyance. I don't say it with the thought that YOU need to pick something else, something that sounds more warm & fuzzy to ME. Now I say it with a spirit of wonder and appreciation for a gift that has been given to me.

Chop wood and carry water. Thank you James. I know that in order to bring these messages to us, you must chop your own wood and carry your own water... and I also know that in order to do all the wonderful things I do, I must chop my wood and carry my water.

I remain open to growth and I pray that you remain open as well. I wish you tons of Strength, Grace and Joy along the way! Keep smiling.

As always, God bless --- Love always, J


Blogger nasim said ... (7/21/2007 6:37 AM) : 
Hi coach
finally i found a way to contact to you. but still I'm not sure that you will answer me or not. I need your help and I really want to have an answer from you.
Coach Please HELP me
I always knew that there is something in myself than will help me to be an important-powerful person and especially when my heart broken at the first time I really want to be a famous success person in my life.
That time I was young and I really didn't know that what I am really wanted.
Now I want somebody with all of my heart and I really love him. I always have a dream of living with together and in my dream I always have a great feeling that I didn't want to get up of my dream. But now every thing seems to be destroyed. I know that in our relationship I had some mistake and I really want another chance to be with him and make him and actually myself happy. Now every thing is seems to be gone and our friendship is off. With all of my heart I thought that it will go in a right line. Do you know I really love him but now it seems he stops his feeling and want me to stop have feeling on him! What should I do?? I never want to force him and never, never force this hope to God I just wanted that every thing going to be ok.
Now I can't get that what is going on? If there is really the low of attraction in this moment where it's?
Do you know I really want to be an architect I am engineer of agriculture. My job is something that I don¢t really want I am looking for a good job but it seems that the time is stops. What should I do now?

Coach Please HELP me
Yours
Nassim


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Wednesday, June 27, 2007

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Sunday, June 17, 2007

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Interview with Brad Neufeld

James Arthur Ray fields questions from callers on the Brad Neufeld Show.

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Interview on Self Dev Radio

James Arthur Ray talks across the pond with Karl Moore from Self Dev Radio.

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Blogger Sky said ... (6/30/2007 3:29 PM) : 
I love this interview. In fact, I love all of these interviews and have listened to them a few times, as well as recommending that my loved ones listen to them!

But, being grouped with Socrates and Springer in the same interview!?! hahahaha The irony. Will wonders never cease... ;-)

Although, when I consider these two quotes, I can certainly see the teachings of James in both:

Be as you wish to seem - Socrates

All of us, whether or not we're celebrities, every one ought to spend part of their life making someone else's life better - Springer

Personally however, I prefer the comparison to Socrates.

I would like to add some quotes from Aristotle that seem to flow with what I get from James:
- Change in all things is sweet.
- Courage is the first of human qualities because it is the quality which guarantees the others.
- Dignity consists not in possessing honors, but in the consciousness that we deserve them.
- Happiness depends upon ourselves.

While there will always be similarities between people, I also think it is important to remember that all of us (including James) are unique and have different gifts to bring to the proverbial table. Use those gifts people! Mr. using-his-gifts-a-plenty Ray can show you how.

:) Love always, Jen


Blogger Amy J + Energy = Bliss! said ... (7/02/2007 2:41 AM) : 
I'd like to acknowledge and thank Jen for posting this great comment! I especially appreciate the Aristotle quotes - great wisdom there!

Yes this interview was great - a bit funny at more than a few times for me at least, but powerful none the less.

And Jen I agree with you - ALL of us are unique and have amazing and magnificent gifts to bring to the world ... so let's get busy! :)

Much Love and Gratitude,

Amy


Blogger Sky said ... (7/02/2007 2:49 PM) : 
Aww! Shucks :)

Well, Amy, it's truly my pleasure and thank YOU for your beautiful message. It means a lot to me.

As Gandhi said, we must "be the change" that we want to see in the world. We must see and be the Peace that we want. We must see and be the Love that we so desperately seek. We must imagine and exhibit the Good that we are looking to find.

Keep shining Your Light, girl. You are powerful and appreciated.

XOXO Love always, Jen


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Interview with Gay Hendricks

James Arthur Ray talks about his favorite movies and fields questions from callers on this call with Gay Hendricks from the Spiritual Cinema Circle.

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Friday, June 01, 2007

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James Ray on FOX6 Morning News (3/19/07)

James Ray on FOX6 Morning News (3/19/07)



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Blogger Sky said ... (6/11/2007 8:11 AM) : 
Becoming More...

YES! I so appreciate all the support I received from Harmonic Wealth weekend. I've written some more pages on my dissertation and even meditated this morning! *smile* I am more focused on what I need to do in order to be true to myself. I know now that I can and will build a company using my passion to help orphanages on a larger scale. I also know that it will be tough at times (my meditation was a bit of a comedy act) but I have to keep going forward. We all do. We deserve it and so does the rest of the world.

James is so brilliant. I generally take a few phrases from his talks that help me over and over. After his free talk, I found the "you are energy" and "you wouldn't feed a race horse... and expect him to win the Derby" phrases helped me numerous times (I even used them on my mom and they helped her)!!! After this weekend, I'm motivated by the thought that "if I don't it now, I never will."

SEIZE THE DAY! I love this saying so much that I have had the words 'carpe diem' on my cell phone for the past year or so... the weekend really reinforced this for me. We can think and say the words, but we have to take action!

SO many things that James says are things that I already felt and even SAID before to my therapy clients, friends and/or family... we must remember who we are! Sometimes it so much easier to encourage others and see the good in them; yet, it really and truly starts with ourselves.

Those of you who have never heard James speak live really need to do it! His wisdom and knowledge are evident. He's pretty darn funny too. What an awesome experience!

Thank you James. God bless you.

I love you all. Love always, Jennifer


Blogger Belgian Waffle said ... (7/09/2007 3:28 PM) : 
Good evening Mr. Ray,

It's almost midnight in Belgium. At this time of the day, I am quite tired so I apologize for my Frenglish! :-)

As usual, before going to bed, I watch you on oprah, here on your blog...anywhere I can...Funny enough, I keep listening to the same speeches over and over again, and keep discovering new things I had not even noticed before.

One comment you made on Oprah...that will stay forever with me is "Hellooooooo, you've been married for the 75th times....wake up.." Just writing this comment, I can see you in my mind and hear your voice....and it still makes me laugh like crazy!! :-) It is so straight to the point though! :-)

Anyway, I did notice it is much easier and quicker to manifest something when I want it than when I need it. In conclusion, I'ld better want everything now to make sure I never end up needing it! :-) :-)

Let me tell you what I tell everyone. As a single mom living overseas with my son, I have no other choices but use the secret principles to avoid ending up living in the street!!!:-)

I 've been single for five years and it may amaze people but I am truly happy being single and I feel blessed to be able to enjoy life without depending on anybody. The day I will decide to be in a relationship, it will be because I want to and not because I need to.

For those who will read this comment, I also purchased the science of success learning system. I also listen to it as often as I can. It's a great tool and I truly recommend it.

Just to give you an idea...I was able to buy a two storey house in Belgium, a brand new car, get an amazing job with 40 paid vacation days per year, 2 health insurances, dental insurance, eye doctor insurance...you name it! AND a wonderful boss and super duper great colleagues...My son is doing great in a French speaking school although he is a native english speaker. What can I tell you?? I just love life!!!

I am greatful for everything I have and thank the universe for always being there for us.

I believe that we all have met at one point in our life an amazing teacher. The first teacher that changed my life passed away a few months ago. He was my elementary teacher. I am now 36 years old and still, I kept in touch with him all these years. The day of his funerals was difficult for me. Everything I have done so far in my life was my way to prove him he was right to believe in me. Then he left and it felt as though my life was falling apart.

After praying for him, I asked him to help me find the right spiritual teacher. That's when I discovered you Mr Ray...I could say by accident...but we both know there are no accidents nor coindicences.

I have many more goals to achieve in my life. One of them is to help other single moms...I trust the universe will help me figure out how to do that. Until then, I try my best to learn and improve myself everyday. So the action I'm taking is to better myself in order to later help others. Another goal is to attend one of your seminars...OK! let me work that out ...and see you soon!:-)

You know...one week before my elementary teacher died, I finally told him how much he meant to me. I now regret waiting so long to tell him. I've been debating with myself "should I tell Mr Ray now or not? Does it even matter to him to get my feedback?" It may not mean a thing to you but it does to me :-) so that's why I am posting this comment today. I am not going to do the same mistake twice. So please, allow me to be bold and tell you this:

Mr. Ray, you are an amazing teacher. You are touching the lives of so many people in such a positive way, and you are not even aware of one tenth of it, are you?? :-):-)When I doubt my abilities to manifest what I want, I listen to you on Oprah or to your CDs and it reassures me...and pumps me up! I'm then ready to face another beautiful day! :-)

So....Thank you very much, God bless you...and see you soon at one of your seminars!

The American Belgian Waffle! :-)
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