Wednesday, July 01, 2009

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A few things for you this holiday weekend...

In addition to wishing those of you in the US a happy (and safe) Independence Day weekend, here are a few things of note you should check out if you haven't already...

On the Today show: Get out of your rut!

Today Show Tune into the Today show this Monday, July 6th to catch me during the 10:30 AM half hour.

I've been asked to share some insights on overcoming obstacles and getting out of a rut (which I've been hearing quite frequently these days)... Don't miss it. You never know what'll happen live!

Thoughts on the Iranian election...

Huffington Post Check out my latest article on the Iranian election, currently featured on Huffington Post. In addition to some insight on this important world topic, you'll explore how you learn and grow from this on a grand scale...

Read it here (and be sure to join in on the discussion)...

Tribute to Michael Jackson

Michael Jackson And finally, in tribute to the beloved Michael Jackson, I was inspired to write a piece in honor of him. Whether or not you're a fan of Michael, I think you may find interesting the notion that no one who was normal ever made history...

Click here to check it out and leave your respects...

To your continued wealth and happiness,

James Arthur Ray
President/CEO
James Ray International, Inc.

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Blogger L.P.Chiasson said ... (7/03/2009 5:14 PM) : 
Good post about Michael, and on how having greater depth gives you less span. It just makes a whole lot of sense. I think it will actually make me feel less "guilty" of being passionate! Imagine how many great minds are being clouded because of the fear of being regarded as outcasts.


OpenID icecold265 said ... (7/05/2009 6:42 AM) : 
I love you man! Great article about the King of Pop! Inspiring, refreshing, for real! You hit right to the core of it! That article really touched me! Thanks so much for it!

Alex


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Monday, June 29, 2009

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A Tribute to Michael Jackson. No One Who Was Normal Ever Made History

Please show your support by leaving comments on the Huffington Post article here and by passing it on to other harmonically-minded individuals.


James Ray International I was shocked! And I'm sure you were too, hearing about Michael Jackson's death. But the more I thought about it... There were, unfortunately, too many warning signs for any one of us to really be that shocked.

Almost immediately, the news began recounting the many controversies of his turbulent life. Michael changed the world of music as much if not more than any other performer--that point is not in contention. Despite the many dramas and accusations lobbied against him over the years (most significantly regarding his relationship with young boys) and even in the midst of what had been disappointing music sales, Michael Jackson never lost his title of the "King of Pop."

I remember watching the video for "Thriller" in utter amazement when it was released on MTV back in 1983. Never before had there been anything even close to this mini-movie in terms of style and talent. As hard as I tried, I never could figure out how to do that darn moonwalk.

Very few people could understand Michael's enigmatic life, and I'm not suggesting that I'm unique in that regard. However, as a student of history, what I do understand is that Michael's life, when considered within the broader scope of highly creative people throughout history, was not really that unusual after all.

For instance, let's consider Friedrich Nietzsche, the German existentialist born in 1844. Throughout his life, he was continually frail and plagued with illness, a consummate recluse, an alcoholic and considered very controversial for his day. His ideas on God made him a complete outcast to the conservative majority of his day. In college, I devoured Nietzsche mostly because he was provocative and deep. I also thought it was cool to be controversial. "That which does not kill us makes us stronger" became my mantra. Ultimately, Nietzsche suffered a psychotic breakdown, had two strokes which partially paralyzed him and died of pneumonia, still in his fifties.

Consider Walt Whitman, the nineteenth-century transcendentalist poet who continues to be one of the most influential poets in the world today. Yet in his time, many thought him to be a madman. His homosexuality or possible bisexuality just didn't fly in the Civil War years. He refused to commit himself to any one religion, stating that all were equally valuable. He spent considerable time alone, and after suffering a stroke near the end of his life, he was too weak to even lift a fork and knife. He wrote, "I suffer all the time: I have no relief, no escape: it is monotony--monotony--monotony--in pain." He died of pneumonia as well.

In the realm of religion, consider the Christian prophet, the man known as Jesus. He was born of Jewish descent, and yet he was constantly breaking Jewish laws and butting heads with the religious leaders of his own heritage. Jesus too is documented on several occasions as going off by himself and spending significant time in solitude. In one particular case, he spent forty days and nights in the desert fasting. Pretty extreme. As you know, he was ultimately sentenced to death by crucifixion.

We could certainly discuss more examples. While some may say that Michael Jackson shouldn't be considered in this crowd, I submit to you that Michael made every bit as much impact on the field of music and race relations as any of these greats did in their particular fields.

The point is that those who leave a major impact on the world are not marching to the same drum as the mass majority.

They often, as with Michael, live controversial and turbulent lives, and they're often greatly misunderstood. Isn't it unfortunate that if someone is ten feet ahead, they're considered a leader, but if someone is ten miles ahead, a target? Michael certainly had his share of playing the target for the media. It's easy to take shots at those at the top, particularly if they're "different enough."

Even though Michael was acquitted on all counts in his court cases, it didn't matter. He would still be plagued with negative comments and jabs. The very creativity that brought the moonwalk, highly produced choreography and music that emotionally moved all ages and races was the same unique mind that drove him to live a very different life that defied societal norms.

In a nutshell, when you're a unique thinker, you have a very hard time relating to mass consciousness. Small talk becomes painful, and your inner world more fulfilling than your outer world. This results in behavior that's often misinterpreted as being aloof, arrogant or sometimes downright weird, which is too bad because people have no idea how very lonely it can be at the top. Furthermore, the contributions of many of these leaders are often never appreciated until long after they're gone.

Howard Gardner's research from Harvard University suggests that there are eight distinct types of intelligences. Musical intelligence is one of Gardner's eight categories. While most of the eight are not measured in school or society at large, except math and linguistic intelligence, they are all equally important and valuable.

It's well known in the studies of human consciousness that, to quote Ken Wilbur, "the greater the depth you have, the less the span." In other words, when you're supremely brilliant in one particular area, you may show deficits in other areas. Read accounts of Einstein getting lost on his own campus walking from one class to the next, and you'll see that the structure of genius takes tremendous depth while often leaving little room for the "less important" issues of life.

What often appears to be dysfunctional to the mass majority may just be the hyper-functional behaviors of a true genius with great depth in his field and a lack of concern or ability to relate in the more mundane things of life.

So here's to the memory of a musical genius, a unique human being that will be an icon for generations. May we always remember as Michael told us in his music that to make a positive change in the world, we must first start with "the man in the mirror."

Michael Jackson's StarThank you, Michael.

May you find the peace in the next life that you rightfully deserve. You made a positive difference. You leave a lasting legacy. While few understood you, you ignited our spirit and touched our emotions with your upbeat message and music. Your gifts will continue to play in our minds and hearts forever.

James Arthur Ray
President/CEO
James Ray International, Inc.

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Blogger Michelle said ... (6/30/2009 12:40 AM) : 
James,

You always have the most profound, thoughtful, and amazing things to say. Thank you for taking the time to share so much beauty with us all. You are astounding!

I met you and had opportunities to share moments in time with you, and I continue to think of you often because of the energy you radiate. I am grateful that our paths crossed.

I once stood in an elevator alone with you and I felt your energy vibrating strong. I will never forget the feeling I had and the strong feeling that it was for a reason.

I carry your energy with me still and look back to those moments in time as memories of spiritual growth patterns and universal unity and love.

Thank you for sharing your soul with the world and with me personally. I will carry your energy with me always.

Michelle


Blogger Pam L. said ... (7/04/2009 8:27 AM) : 
Thank you James for that compassionate and thought provoking tribute to Michael Jackson. I have been a fan for most of my life (we're the same age), through all of his triumph and controversy. While there are things I don't understand about some of his life's choices, I never doubted his sincerity about the ideals of peace and love for humanity. It amazes me how the media can be such a double edged sword; it can help propel a person to stardom, and then spin the context of that person's life events to cut them to the quick! Law of polarity I guess. But even beyond that, the people in my world are now shocked, saddened, and playing his music and videos in tribute.

All in all, I believe his artistic gifts to us will far outshine the controversy, and will be celebrated and enjoyed by many future generations. May his essence continue the journey in peace and joy. And James, I could never get that moonwalk either!

Happy Independence Day!
Pam


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