Friday, August 24, 2007

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Are you using the Curly Principle?

"Any time I have seen someone accomplishing something magnificent, they have been a monomaniac with a mission. A single-minded individual with a passion."
--Peter Drucker
James Ray International

You may recall the movie City Slickers from a while back starring Billy Crystal and Jack Palance. In it, we observed the story of a man (Crystal) who because of a midlife crisis decides to go out with some buddies and rustle cattle for a week.

Curly (Palance), the trail boss to whom they report, really seems to have his head together, and Crystal's character keeps asking him what the secret is. Curly's only reply is to hold up his index finger and say, "One thing."

Finally in frustration, Crystal asks, "Well, what is that one thing?" To which Curly replies, "That's what YOU have to figure out... No one can do it for you."

This "Curly Principle" teaches us the same lesson that the renowned management consultant Peter Drucker has observed in highly successful people:

Monomania.

In other words, a single-minded focus and passion for that "one thing." Jesus taught us in Luke 11:34, "When thine eye is single, thy whole body also is full of light."

What are you singularly focused on?

Frequently, I meet individuals who want to have their dreams and yet aren't willing to give up anything to achieve them. This is self-deception. Choosing to become great in any area means choosing to not be great in another area. There will always be a price to pay. There will always be a sacrifice.

You can only ride one horse really well at any one time. Yes, you may be able to ride two, but nowhere NEAR as well as you can ride one. Nowhere near as agile, responsive or quick. Understand the difference?

"The secret to success in life is making your vocation your vacation."
--Mark Twain

Several years ago, I was in LA with some good friends attending an Elton John concert. I was asked what seems to be a frequent question among acquaintances, "What do you do for fun and recreation?"

This is always a difficult question for me to answer, because I know there's an unspoken expectation that I come up with a whole list of activities I'm involved in. Bottom line...

I am a monomaniac.

(And not in the clinical sense of the word either.) My work is my passion as well as my "re-creation" (notice the true meaning of the word). When asked the question, "How is work?" I can honestly answer, "Work is play."

I absolutely love what I do, and if you can say that too, then that goes a long way towards creating Harmonic Wealth®. I can think of nothing more fulfilling and re-creating than to meditate, study, read, learn, write, create, help and coach others, talk with you and share insights.

Yes, I do hike, workout, ski from time to time, go to movies and I even played golf poorly once. But these are not the things that make life meaningful for me. Many see their work as a "means to an end," but for the monomaniac, their work is an end unto itself. Not just a job... a meaningful, passionate mission.

Your work is your passion and your love made manifest through action.

Is this the right approach for you? I'm not qualified to answer that question. What I am qualified to do is to check my own observations and experiences and agree with Drucker and Curly.

To accomplish anything of consequence, anything magnificent and great, you must be willing to literally trade your life for it. To be so passionately focused and committed that nothing will divert you. Nothing and no one can stop you.

My wish is that you find that "one thing" in your life:

Your white-hot passion that brings you tremendous meaning and purpose.

To your continued wealth and happiness,

James Arthur Ray
President/CEO
James Ray International

James Ray International

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Blogger GoodLifeDenver said ... (8/24/2007 2:58 PM) : 
I love it. Just when I start feeling guilty for being what most people would call a "work-aholic", I get this lovely message with a perfect word for my current journey: monomaniac. I am a woman on a mission...I simply don't have the time, desire or inclination for anything other that blasting my business into the world! I'm having so much fun doing it (at the expense of other stuff) but it must be done (else my life eeks back into mediocrity). And that's never gonna happen.

Thanks James, for this gentle message of accepting where I am instead of judging it and feeling guilty for it.

And the pendulum swings...

Love, Charlene aka Publisher GoodLife Denver Magazine/Media


Blogger Amy J + Energy = Bliss! said ... (8/24/2007 5:05 PM) : 
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Blogger Amy J + Energy = Bliss! said ... (8/26/2007 6:04 AM) : 
James,

Ok.. this post brings up some wonderful points and answers some questions. When passionately committed and driven in one area, one naturally must let other areas slide or not be fully committed and effective in that one area! I can't think of a time when I was passionate and utterly immersed in something that I wasn't single minded to a fault(!). Naturally there are sacrifices.

Currently as I find myself in this space of single-mindedness, I'm utterly immersed and having so much fun learning and growing so much I don't notice - is something missing? As you say, the work is your passion and your love made manifest through action. It's "no-work" - it's fun!

That said, what I find very interesting is how we bring "questioners" into our lives to inquire about those areas we sacrifice (or give much less energy to) in order to be single purposed. Since we create and project our all of our reality, I am curious - what is it that we are seeking or wanting to learn by generating this questioning of us? Since in reality, it is really us questioning us.

Is the bringing of these "questioners" into our lives driven by some kind of inner belief we adopted long ago which says a full and happy life must include certain activities and look a certain way? Or do we have the questioners show up to possibly be some kind of touch point to keep us grounded so we don't turn into the clinical monomaniac?

I wonder.

I am forever the inquirer and your wonderful post leads me to inquiry - my favorite space in which to be! So thank you!

I look forward to meeting up with you in the swirls of meditative energies..... 'til then....


Much Love and Sincere Appreciation,

Amy

PS... ILY...TY


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